it's now after so long that i realise that your best will never be good enough for anyone. being yourself is not the best you can do for someone, you can be anyone or anything you want to be if you just stop letting people getting in your way. you can try and say that "people's opinions don't matter" but they do, even if it's just a tiny bit, no one would be who they are today without the people they are surrounded with's judgement.
i'm sorry to break it to anyone who thinks, "i do everything for myself, not for other people" that's bullshit because you can't be that selfish and a good person at the same time. if your a dickhead, chances are you just don't care about the people around you or the people you hurt.